Tuesday, August 24, 2010

The eyes say it all

If we're unlucky enough, we've all been in relationships with men who don't deserve us.
These men mostly over-love us, showering us love and affection for fear of losing us.

Overdoing romantic dinners, surprising us with flowers, etc, etc...

I may sound cold for not appreciating the attention I once got from a man whose love turned obsessive, but sometimes too much passion just seems wrong.

One day, you just realize that something ain't right, that something won't ever be enough for you.

Gifts are material, flowers shed their petals, and, time come, so does the relationship.

I had super-low self esteem a couple of years ago, and contented myself with someone who had no life ambition, no good looks, and who was crap in the sack.

And one day, I opened my eyes, and really saw him. Was I happy? Or will I ever be happy? I saw him for who he was. Someone who will never bring me anything, teach me anything, or even won't even be helped.

The look I had on my face probably said it all. You know, when you're looking at your man, and not saying anything, and don't have a hint of a smile on your face.

I'm not saying he won't make anyone happy. One person's caviar, is another person's shit-sandwich.

As bad as this article may sound, my life did get better when we broke up. I got my self-esteem back, and went on with my life, never looking back at that time of my life.

How do you feel about this? Do you think it's wrong thinking that some people, just aren't worth you or your time?

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